{"id":1007,"date":"2019-02-24T04:59:29","date_gmt":"2019-02-24T04:59:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/?p=1007"},"modified":"2019-02-25T15:13:50","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T15:13:50","slug":"cazul-femeii-cu-1001-personalitati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/2019\/02\/24\/cazul-femeii-cu-1001-personalitati\/","title":{"rendered":"Cazul femeii cu 1001 personalit\u0103\u021bi"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">E o poveste care am ezitat mult s\u0103 o spun. <strong>E at\u00e2t de incredibil\u0103 \u00eenc\u00e2t mul\u021bi vor crede c\u0103 am inventat-o<\/strong>. De\u0219i fiecare e liber s\u0103 cread\u0103 ceea ce dore\u0219te eu nu pot dec\u00e2t jura c\u0103 e adev\u0103rat\u0103. Unele detalii au fost modificat pentru a men\u021bine anonimatul. Cu toate acestea, unii dintre voi se vor prinde cine-s personajele. Spre c\u0103 <strong>ace\u0219tia, cei care \u0219ti\u021bi despre cine este vorba, ve\u021bi avea bunul sim\u021b s\u0103 \u021bine\u021bi pentru voi <\/strong>\u0219i s\u0103 nu dest\u0103inui\u021bi aici, pe FB. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/IMG_1741-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1008\"\/><figcaption>Trillium, floarea provinciei Ontario (un simbol omniprezent)<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Cu ani \u00een urm\u0103 am cunoscut pe cineva pe Facebook. S\u0103-i spunem Diana \u2013 ca s\u0103 ne putem referi la ea. A\u0219a cum spunea bunicul meu \u201e<em>dragostea intr\u0103 la b\u0103rba\u021bi prin ochi iar la femei prin urechi<\/em>\u201d. A\u0219a s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat \u0219i la mine \u2013 am f\u0103cut gre\u0219eala de a \u021bine ochii deschi\u0219i \u0219i dragostea (sau excitarea, \u00eenc\u0103 nu \u0219tiu) mi-au p\u0103truns prin ochi. Nu aveam idee atunci cu c\u00e2t\u0103 grij\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i alegea EA pozele \u0219i c\u00e2t de mult se \u00eenfuria dac\u0103 cineva posta o poz\u0103 de la vreun bairam pe care ea nu o aprobase. Nu aveam idee c\u0103 tot ce vedeam era o imagine pe care ea o cultiva cu grij\u0103. Ne-am cunoscut \u0219i ne-am iubit \u0219i ne-am desp\u0103r\u021bit. C\u0103 a\u0219a-i datul vie\u021bii. De ce \u0219i cum n-are sens s\u0103 detaliez aici, la fel cum n-are sens ca elefantul s\u0103 se \u00eentrebe de ce n-a f\u0103cut cas\u0103 bun\u0103 cu girafa. <strong>Pentru c\u0103<\/strong>!, e singurul r\u0103spuns lucid. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/celia-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1010\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/celia.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/celia-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/celia-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption>Diana-Liliane-Adrian, la o expozi\u021bie, \u00een Montreal<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Eu sunt naiv de felul meu \u0219i, naiv fiind, accept c\u0103 oamenii au profile multiple, c\u0103-n via\u021ba virtual\u0103 oamenii pot fi ce doresc. C\u00e2nd eram pe site-uri de dating, OdB (Oamenii de Bine) m\u0103 avertizau \u201e<em>Vezi c\u0103 X e aceea\u0219i persoan\u0103 ca Y<\/em>\u201d. \u0218i ce dac\u0103? X \u00eemi vorbea prietenos, Y du\u0219m\u0103nos \u2013 poate c\u0103 omul are 2 profile, sau 3, sau 5, c\u00e2te unul pentru fiecare stare emo\u021bional\u0103. Cu fiecare dintre aceste profile vorbeam ca \u0219i cum ar fi o persoan\u0103 independent\u0103. C\u00e2nd <strong>Liliane Lefevre <\/strong>mi-a cerut prietenia dup\u0103 ce m-am desp\u0103r\u021bit de Diana, am realizat (din numele francez demn de Rocambole \u0219i post\u0103rile sporadice) c\u0103 e un profil m\u0103sluit. Dar am acceptat-o. \u0218i apoi, \u00eentr-o sear\u0103 c\u00e2nd eram singur, am schimbat cu Liliane link-uri youtube cu melodii din anii 80 \u0219i mi-a fost bine. Iar apoi, c\u00e2teva s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni mai t\u00e2rziu, c\u00e2nd \u00eemi era r\u0103u, i-am spus acestei femei ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu mine, de ce-mi este r\u0103u \u2013 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103-ntreb de ce profilul ei, pozi\u021bionat \u00een Paris, nu doarme la acea or\u0103. \u0218i ea s-a dest\u0103inuit&#8230; a fi Diana. \u00cen tulburarea momentului am chemat-o \u2013 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc la consecin\u021be \u2013 iar ea a venit. Am reanimat mortul, am reluat rela\u021bia. Mi-a fost o ru\u0219ine cumplit\u0103 c-am fost prins dest\u0103inuindu-mi dureri de inim\u0103 chiar ei dar am supravie\u021buit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/andi-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1011\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/andi.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/andi-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/andi-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption>Observa\u021bi asem\u0103narea? Ei, spune\u021bi c\u0103 nu-i \u0219ocant! \ud83d\ude42<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi, dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva zile de re\u00eent\u00e2lnire, a dorit s\u0103-mi spun\u0103 (cu un soi de m\u00e2ndrie) ce-a mai f\u0103cut de c\u00e2nd ne-am desp\u0103r\u021bit, \u00een ultimele luni. Nu pierduse timpul, aceast\u0103 <strong>Diana-Liliane<\/strong>. \u00ce\u0219i f\u0103cuse un profil de FB fals \u2013 <strong>Adrian Schmidt<\/strong>, care locuia \u00een Toronto &#8211; \u0219i cu el o contactase pe o fost\u0103 prieten\u0103. Re\u021binuse unde munce\u0219te \u0219i din ce ora\u0219 este, o identificase pe Facebook \u0219i&#8230; da, o ag\u0103\u021base. De\u0219i nu mai era cu mine voia (pentru ce motive?) s\u0103 \u0219tie despre mine. Iar aceast\u0103 fost\u0103 prieten\u0103, dup\u0103 ce la desp\u0103r\u021bire \u00eemi vorbise despre eterna ei gratitudine pentru tot ce am f\u0103cut pentru ea, lui Adrian Schmidt \u00eei spunea (evident) o alt\u0103 poveste. Unele aspecte erau adev\u0103rate, umflate cu dib\u0103cie feminin\u0103 la nivelul de fapte \u00eempotriva umanit\u0103\u021bii. Ca s\u0103 nu am nici un dubiu c\u0103 spune adev\u0103rul, <strong>Diana-Liliane-Adrian <\/strong>mi-a trimis log-urile chat-urilor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu \u0219tiu care-i fusese inten\u021bia. S\u0103-mi arate ce pervers\u0103 fusese prietena mea? Ce importan\u021b\u0103 avea? Erau- \u00een acel moment \u2013 trei ani de c\u00e2nd nu mai fusesem cu acea femeie. S\u0103-mi arate c\u0103 \u0219tie ce tic\u0103los sunt? Tot ce \u0219tia era cum m\u0103 descria o fost\u0103 iubit\u0103 amar\u0103 de ruperea rela\u021biei. \u0218tiu \u00eens\u0103 care a fost reac\u021bia mea, cea de pe interior pentru c\u0103 : un frison \u0219i g\u00e2ndul \u201e<em>cine este Diana cu adev\u0103rat<\/em>?\u201d. Ca s\u0103 nu distrug totul, at\u00e2t de cur\u00e2nd dup\u0103 ce o reluasem, mi-am repetat \u00een g\u00e2nd p\u00e2n\u0103 m-am convins c\u0103 Diana f\u0103cuse toate acestea din dragoste. Ah, nu \u0219tiu c\u00e2nd voi sc\u0103pa de aceste romantism cretin&#8230; am citit prea multe c\u0103r\u021bi cu mu\u0219chetari \u0219i cavaleri dispu\u0219i s\u0103 moar\u0103 pentru femeia iubit\u0103, pentru crezul lor, prea multe c\u0103r\u021bi cu femei silite de iubire s\u0103 recurg\u0103 la subterfugii murdare. E mult mai nobil astfel dec\u00e2t s\u0103 accep\u021bi c\u0103 oamenii fac ceea ce oamenii simt nevoia s\u0103 fac\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/2019\/02\/24\/cazul-femeii-2\/\">VA URMA<\/a><\/strong> (m\u0103car \u00eenc\u0103 3 episoade)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>E o poveste care am ezitat mult s\u0103 o spun. E at\u00e2t de incredibil\u0103 \u00eenc\u00e2t mul\u021bi vor crede c\u0103 am inventat-o. De\u0219i fiecare e liber s\u0103 cread\u0103 ceea ce dore\u0219te eu nu pot dec\u00e2t jura c\u0103 e adev\u0103rat\u0103. Unele detalii au fost modificat pentru a men\u021bine anonimatul. 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