{"id":1016,"date":"2019-02-24T14:37:23","date_gmt":"2019-02-24T14:37:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/?p=1016"},"modified":"2019-02-25T15:14:21","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T15:14:21","slug":"cazul-femeii-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/2019\/02\/24\/cazul-femeii-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Cazul femeii&#8230; 2"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Citi\u021bi <a href=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/2019\/02\/24\/cazul-femeii-cu-1001-personalitati\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"prima parte (opens in a new tab)\">prima parte<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">Probabil \u00een acest capitol &#8211; al omului care ac\u021bioneaz\u0103 sub impuls &#8211; se \u00eenscria \u0219i faptul c\u0103 nu peste mult timp s-a apucat s\u0103-mi scormoneasc\u0103 prin laptop. \u00cen nici o rela\u021bie nu m-am ascuns, nu mi-am blocat laptop-ul sau celularul. M-am comportat ca o carte deschis\u0103. C\u00e2nd sunt cu cineva nu deschid alte fire romantice \u0219i de\u0219i am c\u00e2teva prietene femei, ne cunoa\u0219tem de foarte, foarte mul\u021bi ani \u0219i nu alunec\u0103m \u00een conversa\u021bii nepotrivite. Nu fac nimic r\u0103u inten\u021bionat \u0219i n-am de ce s\u0103 m\u0103 ascund. <strong>O rela\u021bie nu poate tr\u0103i f\u0103r\u0103 respect <\/strong>\u0219i, mai ales, <strong>\u00eencredere<\/strong>. \u0218tiu c\u0103 e (voit!) naiv &#8211; \u0219i \u00eencrederea mi-a fost \u00een\u0219elat\u0103 de c\u00e2teva ori dar asta e atitudinea mea, e cine sunt eu \u0219i \u0219tiu c\u0103 nu to\u021bi oamenii &nbsp;sunt asemeni mie. Diana-Liliane-Adrian nu cred c\u0103 avea nici respect \u0219i, mai ales, \u00eencredere \u00een mine. M\u0103 b\u0103nuia mereu &#8211; pentru orice Like primit pe Facebook. Ea m-a \u00eendemnat s\u0103-mi fac pagina pe care postez aceste lucruri \u0219i apoi \u00eencepea caterinc\u0103 \u00eentreb\u00e2nd &#8220;Cine-i tipa aia care-\u021bi d\u0103 like-uri tot timpul?&#8221;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"960\" height=\"539\" src=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/floare_de_soare.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1017\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/floare_de_soare.jpg 960w, http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/floare_de_soare-300x168.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/floare_de_soare-768x431.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><figcaption>O poz\u0103 dintr-un parc. Soarele s-a a\u0219ezat exact cum trebuia ca s\u0103-mi creeze o floare pe lentil\u0103.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p>Nici m\u0103car nu era interesat\u0103 de prezent, s\u0103 \u0219tie dac\u0103-i sunt fidel \u0219i cinstit. Ca o Ev\u0103 bolnav\u0103 de curiozitate voia s\u0103 \u0219tie totul, chiar \u0219i lucruri pe care o persoan\u0103 adult\u0103 \u0219i responsabil\u0103 n-ar dori s\u0103 le afle \u00een ruptul capului \u2013 pentru c\u0103 nu le mai po\u021bi uita, \u021bi se lipesc de retin\u0103, de minte, \u0219i te macin\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-am verificat email-ul \u0219i am l\u0103sat laptop-ul deschis \u0219i deblocat. M-am dus la du\u0219. C\u00e2nd am venit, \u00een locul unei pagini web, am g\u0103sit pe ecran clientul de email cu un email de la acea fost\u0103 prieten\u0103 pe care Adrian Schmidt o ag\u0103\u021base, un email vechi. I-am b\u0103tut obrazul <strong>Dianei-Lilianei-Adrian<\/strong> de\u0219i nu aveam nimic de ascuns \u2013 acel email era un banal \u201e<em>La Mul\u021bi Ani<\/em>\u201d de ziua mea. I-am spus c\u0103 e ur\u00e2t ce face \u0219i c\u0103 \u00eemi pierd \u00eencrederea \u00een ea. A p\u0103rut ru\u0219inat\u0103. A p\u0103rut c-a \u00een\u021beles. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dovada c-a \u00een\u021beles perfect mi-a fost oferit\u0103 dou\u0103 (2) zile mai t\u00e2rziu. Iar\u0103\u0219i am mers la baie. De data asta a fost atent\u0103 &#8211; c\u00e2nd m-am \u00eentors n-am g\u0103sit nimic incriminator pe desktop. Dar mai t\u00e2rziu, c\u00e2nd am deschis Word-ul am g\u0103sit \u00een lista de Recent Documents un fi\u0219ier numit \u201e<em>Jurnal Mihaela<\/em>\u201d. Mihaela era \u00eenc\u0103 o alt\u0103 prieten\u0103 cu care fusesem \u00eempreun\u0103 un an de zile chiar \u00eenainte de a fi cu <strong>Diana<\/strong>. \u0218tiam c\u0103 nu are de s\u0103 fie \u00een lista de <em>Recent Documents <\/em>\u2013 era un fi\u0219ier \u00een care, \u00een timpul rela\u021biei (care se \u00eencheiase cu peste 2 1\/2 ani \u00een urm\u0103), \u00eemi scriam ofurile. De data aceasta m-am \u00eenfuriat. \u201e<em>Ce naiba e cu tine<\/em>?\u201d, i-am strigat. &nbsp;&#8220;<em>De ce s\u0103 te ui\u021bi \u00een mintea omului din urm\u0103 cu ani? Ce bun poate ie\u0219i din a citi declara\u021biile de iubire, frustrare, disperare<\/em>?&#8221; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aici ar fi trebuit s\u0103 pun punct. \u00cenc\u0103 o dat\u0103. Definitiv. Dar n-am f\u0103cut-o \u0219i ne-au &nbsp;costat \u00eenc\u0103 18 luni, c\u0103l\u0103torii la distan\u021b\u0103 pentru am\u00e2ndoi, bani, speran\u021be destr\u0103mate \u0219i un final le\u0219inat, a\u0219a cum te a\u0219tep\u021bi de la rela\u021bie care-\u0219i tr\u0103ise ultima suflare. Dar asta este &#8211; am crezut c\u0103 e finalul. Fusese pentru mine. \u00cenainte de a-i spune c\u0103 nu mai doresc s\u0103 fiu cu ea am a\u0219teptat 5 zile \u0219i n-am sunat-o, nu i-am dat nici un semn de via\u021b\u0103. Fiecare zi \u00eemi aducea tot mai mult\u0103 pace \u0219i asta m-a convins c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 trag linia.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru Diana, era un nou \u00eenceput \u2013 un \u00eenceput de comploturi \u0219i r\u0103zbunare.  Peste doar o lun\u0103 am \u00eent\u00e2lnit pe altcineva. Iar\u0103\u0219i pe Facebook. Nu m\u0103 critica\u021bi pentru viteza cu care m-am mi\u0219cat \u2013 punctul de final a fost consim\u021birea unui fapt. \u00cen plus, la rug\u0103mintea ei a\u0219teptasem \u00eenc\u0103 o lun\u0103 \u2013 deci tehnic fuseser\u0103 2 luni. Chiar \u00eemi amintesc c\u0103 am crezut absurd c\u0103 va folosi acea lun\u0103 pentru ceva special, pentru ni\u0219te arme secrete cu care s\u0103 r\u0103stoarne soarta r\u0103zboiului nostru. Da\u00b4 de unde \u2013 nu avea persevern\u021ba pentru a\u0219a ceva. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/2019\/02\/25\/cazul-femeii-3\/\">VA URMA<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Citi\u021bi prima parte. Probabil \u00een acest capitol &#8211; al omului care ac\u021bioneaz\u0103 sub impuls &#8211; se \u00eenscria \u0219i faptul c\u0103 nu peste mult timp s-a apucat s\u0103-mi scormoneasc\u0103 prin laptop. \u00cen nici o rela\u021bie nu m-am ascuns, nu mi-am blocat laptop-ul sau celularul. M-am comportat ca o carte deschis\u0103. C\u00e2nd sunt cu cineva nu deschid<span class=\"excerpt-ellipsis\">&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/2019\/02\/24\/cazul-femeii-2\/\" itemprop=\"url\">Continue Reading<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[380],"class_list":["post-1016","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-diana-liliane-adrian"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1016","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1016"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1016\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1027,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1016\/revisions\/1027"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1016"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1016"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1016"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}