{"id":1066,"date":"2019-06-08T18:13:32","date_gmt":"2019-06-08T18:13:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/?p=1066"},"modified":"2019-06-08T18:13:32","modified_gmt":"2019-06-08T18:13:32","slug":"stoicism-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/2019\/06\/08\/stoicism-3\/","title":{"rendered":"Stoicism 3"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Pentru cei ce n-au citit primele 2 p\u0103r\u021bi:<br><a href=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/2019\/05\/20\/stoicismul-o-filosofie-pentru-mileniul-3\/\">Stoicism 1<\/a><br><a href=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/2019\/05\/23\/stoicism-2\/\">Stoicism 2<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=6><li><b>Ac\u021bioneaz\u0103 \u2013 adev\u0103ratul stoic este un R\u0103zboinic al Min\u021bii<\/b><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Dac\u0103, a\u0219a cum am v\u0103zut, multe lucruri nu sunt sub controlul nostru, de ce ne mai zbatem? N-ar fi mai \u00een\u021belept s\u0103 ne relax\u0103m \u0219i s\u0103 l\u0103s\u0103m lucrurile s\u0103 curg\u0103 de la sine? NU<\/strong>. Lucrurile nu se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 indiferent de ceea ce facem ci \u00eempreun\u0103 cu ceea ce facem. Mi s-a spus \u201e<em>Uneori e mai bine s\u0103 nu faci nimic<\/em>\u201d \u0219i sunt de acord \u2013 dar alteori e mai bine s\u0103 faci ceva. Nu po\u021bi \u0219ti care-s acele momente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p>Nu po\u021bi avea virtute \u0219i tr\u0103i Via\u021ba Bun\u0103 dac\u0103 nu faci ceea ce trebuie, dac\u0103 nu \u00eempline\u0219ti lucrul drept. <strong>Stoicismul este o filosofie foarte pragmatic\u0103, care se aplic\u0103<\/strong>! Stoicul nu este un bibliotecar al min\u021bii \u2013 a\u0219a cum mul\u021bi oameni educa\u021bi ai zilei noastre sunt. El nu acumuleaz\u0103 \u00een\u021belepciune de dragul \u00een\u021belepciunii \u2013 o aplic\u0103 \u00een fiecare lucru pe care-l face. <strong>Ca \u0219i iubirea adev\u0103rat\u0103, ideile drepte se practic\u0103<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fiecare eveniment al unei zile, al unei vie\u021bi, poate fi analizat prin prisma stoicismului. Am observat adesea c\u0103 mul\u021bi dintre semenii no\u0219tri prefer\u0103, aproape de fiecare dat\u0103, s\u0103 fac\u0103 lucrul u\u0219or \u0219i nu lucrul corect. Pleac\u0103 &#8211; de exemplu &#8211; dintr-o rela\u021bie pe \u0219est, f\u0103r\u0103 nici o explica\u021bie. De ce s\u0103 se certe, de ce s\u0103 se simt\u0103 r\u0103u, de ce s\u0103 \u00eenfrunte emo\u021bii negative? Mint ca s\u0103 nu deranjeze sau s\u0103 ri\u0219te un conflict. B\u00e2rfesc pentru c\u0103 n-au curajul s\u0103 spun\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 omului ce a f\u0103cut gre\u0219it. <strong>Stoicul se lupt\u0103 cu sine \u0219i cu universul pentru a-\u0219i c\u00e2\u0219tiga Via\u021ba Bun\u0103.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=7><li><b>Practic\u0103 ghinionul \u2013 \u00eentreab\u0103-te mereu \u201e<i>Ce poate merge r\u0103u<\/i>?\u201d.<\/b> <\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218tiu, nimeni nu poate \u0219ti cu adev\u0103rat r\u0103ul cel mai r\u0103u \u0219i oricum nu se poate preg\u0103ti \u2013 dar dac\u0103 nu e sub controlul lui (i.e. o boal\u0103 grav\u0103) nici \u00ee\u0219i poate ruina via\u021ba. Dar <strong>oamenii<\/strong>, mul\u021bi dintre ei, <strong>nu se preg\u0103tesc mental nici pentru cele mai normale \u0219i triviale situa\u021bii<\/strong>. Peste aceast\u0103 tendin\u021b\u0103 natural\u0103 de a fi incon\u0219tien\u021bi se mai suprapune \u0219i preceptul zilelor moderne de a fi optimist \u0219i pozitiv. Nu e o idee rea \u2013 dar cred c\u0103 <strong>optimist poate fi doar omul care are un plan pentru zile de restri\u0219te. Via\u021ba nu este o ascensiune continu\u0103; e o sinusoid\u0103, cu urc\u0103ri \u0219i cobor\u00e2\u0219uri<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un om cu un plan pentru acele momente de cobor\u00e2re pe care le poate anticipa\ne mai pu\u021bin probabil s\u0103 panicheze, s\u0103 se deprime, s\u0103 se lase prad\u0103 disper\u0103rii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Personal cred c\u0103 sunt un profesionist admirat nu pentru c\u0103 a\u0219 fi at\u00e2t de bun \u2013 am \u00eent\u00e2lnit al\u021bi oameni mai sprin\u021bari la minte \u00een domeniul tehnic, care prindeau din zbor conceptele pentru care eu eram silit s\u0103 muncesc. Eu \u00eens\u0103 m\u0103 preg\u0103tesc \u0219i infrastructurile mele tehnice au mereu 2-3 redundan\u021be sau planuri alternative pentru acele momente c\u00e2nd lucrurile nu merg cum mi-am dorit. C\u00e2nd iau un \u00eemprumut am 2-3 resurse pentru a pl\u0103ti acel \u00eemprumut, nu doar una singur\u0103.  <strong>Evident,  n-am fost a\u0219a \u00eentotdeauna &#8211;  am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat ce trebuie s\u0103 fac ca s\u0103 nu mai disper<\/strong>. Acum, prefer s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eengrijorez pu\u021bin \u00eenainte dec\u00e2t mult dac\u0103 lucrurile o iau razna. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am cunoscut oameni care s-au pr\u0103bu\u0219it \u00een situa\u021bii banale care, mi se p\u0103reau\nmie (cu argumente logice), erau u\u0219or de traversat. Singurul lucru diferit era\nc\u0103 nu-\u0219i puseser\u0103 niciodat\u0103 problema c\u0103 ar putea ateriza \u00een acea situa\u021bie,\nrelativ normal\u0103, relativ u\u0219or de rezolvat. Surpriza, \u0219ocul, \u00eei lovea mult mai\nputernic dec\u00e2t ar fi fost cazul. Limba englez\u0103 are o zical\u0103 excelent\u0103 \u201ehoping\nfor the best but preparing for the worst\u201d (s\u0103 speri \u00een ce-i mai bun dar s\u0103 te\npreg\u0103te\u0219ti pentru ce este r\u0103u). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=8><li><b>Adaug\u0103\n<i>clauza de rezerv\u0103<\/i> la ac\u021biunile ce vi le-a\u021bi propus<\/b><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Facem tot ce putem ca s\u0103 reu\u0219im \u00een lucrurile drepte pe care ni le-am propus dar \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 accept\u0103m ceea ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103. Seneca folose\u0219te urm\u0103toarea fraz\u0103 pentru a descrie acest\u0103 clauz\u0103 \u201e<strong><em>Voi traversa oceanul&#8230; dac\u0103 nimic nu m\u0103 \u00eempiedic\u0103 din drumul meu<\/em><\/strong>\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pare complicat, haotic, trivial poate dar e un sfat de foarte mult bun\nsim\u021b:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>F\u0103 c\u00e2t\nde bine po\u021bi<\/li><li>Re\u021bine\nc\u0103 rezultatele eforturilor nu-s 100% sub controlul t\u0103u<\/li><li>Accept\u0103\nrezultatele<\/li><li>Continu\u0103\ns\u0103 ac\u021bionezi conform principiilor virtu\u021bii (nu deveni r\u0103u \u0219i nu f\u0103 r\u0103u doar\npentru c\u0103 e\u0219ti am\u0103r\u00e2t c\u0103 lucrurile nu \u021bi-au ie\u0219it cum ai dorit)<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>E ca \u00een sport. Contrar celor ce cred mul\u021bi, a c\u00e2\u0219tiga nu este \u021belul ultimativ, ci a face, a spune, a fi c\u00e2t de bun po\u021bi fi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>VA URMA<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pentru cei ce n-au citit primele 2 p\u0103r\u021bi:Stoicism 1Stoicism 2 Ac\u021bioneaz\u0103 \u2013 adev\u0103ratul stoic este un R\u0103zboinic al Min\u021bii Dac\u0103, a\u0219a cum am v\u0103zut, multe lucruri nu sunt sub controlul nostru, de ce ne mai zbatem? N-ar fi mai \u00een\u021belept s\u0103 ne relax\u0103m \u0219i s\u0103 l\u0103s\u0103m lucrurile s\u0103 curg\u0103 de la sine? NU. 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