{"id":1339,"date":"2022-01-23T01:43:42","date_gmt":"2022-01-23T01:43:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/?p=1339"},"modified":"2022-01-23T01:43:42","modified_gmt":"2022-01-23T01:43:42","slug":"judecata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/2022\/01\/23\/judecata\/","title":{"rendered":"Judecata"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Spun oricui st\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 asculte c\u0103 nu dau dou\u0103 parale pe una din metodele moderne de semnalare a virtu\u021bii: &#8220;<em>Eu nu judec<\/em>&#8220;. Mi se pare c\u0103-i ca \u0219i cum un pe\u0219te ar spune &#8220;<em>Eu nu \u00eenot<\/em>&#8221; sau o pas\u0103re &#8220;<em>Eu nu zbor<\/em>&#8220;. Indiferent de unde credem c\u0103 avem judecata, mintea, de la Dumnezeu sau de la Evolu\u021bie, e imposibil pentru un om s\u0103 nu judece. Mintea ne-a fost dat\u0103 ca s\u0103 judec\u0103m, ca s\u0103 ra\u021bion\u0103m, s\u0103 compar\u0103m. Deci, pentru mare parte, &#8220;<em>Eu nu judec<\/em>&#8221; &#8211; chiar dac\u0103 ar fi adev\u0103rat\u0103, dar nu este pentru c\u0103 eu cred c\u0103-i imposibil, s-ar traduce prin &#8220;<em>Eu renun\u021b la cel mai mare cadou, la tot ce m\u0103 desparte de animale&#8221; <\/em>(da, \u0219tiu c\u0103 \u0219i animalele au inteligen\u021ba lor dar nu se preteaz\u0103 la analiz\u0103). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-medium\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" src=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Judge-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1341\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Judge-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Judge-768x576.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Judge.jpg 862w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><figcaption>Nu fi &#8220;Judge, Jury and Executioner&#8221;<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>F\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 judec\u0103m, n-avem cum deosebi Binele de R\u0103u, Frumosul de Ur\u00e2t, Raiul de Iad. \u0218i, culmea este c\u0103 \u00een narativa modern\u0103, cam a\u0219a pare s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple&#8230; Dar numai pare, \u00een sensul c\u0103 judecata continu\u0103 s\u0103 existe \u0219i numai sistemul valoric s-a schimbat.  Frumoas\u0103 e iurta tribului X, ur\u00e2t\u0103-i Capela Sistin\u0103 c\u0103-i a opresorului alb; bun este omul care n-a f\u0103cut nimic bun dar nici r\u0103u, tic\u0103los e omul eminent care-a avut sclavi c\u0103 a\u0219a era moda la timpul s\u0103u \u0219.a.m.d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N-am s\u0103 v\u0103 \u00eendemn la a judeca pentru c\u0103, a\u0219a cred eu, o face\u021bi indiferent de ce spune\u021bi, pentru c\u0103 e o activitate la fel de natural\u0103 pentru om cum e respiratul. Dar c\u00e2nd o face\u021bi ave\u021bi grij\u0103 s\u0103 face\u021bi o judecat\u0103 dreapt\u0103, cu toate informa\u021biile, pun\u00e2nd absolut totul \u00een c\u00e2ntar. Curentul actual nu a ap\u0103rut din neant. Este o reac\u021bie la <strong>judecata pripit\u0103<\/strong>, cea f\u0103cut\u0103 iresponsabil &#8211; folosind stereotipii \u0219i informa\u021bii sumare. E mam\u0103 singur\u0103, sigur e o femeie u\u0219oar\u0103; e \u021bigan, sigur ne va fura ceva din cas\u0103; e moroc\u0103nos, sigur c\u0103-i un om r\u0103u \u0219i, dimpotriv\u0103, cine-i volubil \u0219i z\u00e2mb\u0103re\u021b, sigur ne vrea binele \u0219i merit\u0103 \u00eencrederea noastr\u0103. Oameni s\u0103tui de judecat\u0103 pripit\u0103 au enun\u021bat prostia cu &#8220;Eu nu judec&#8221;. Judec\u0103, drag\u0103, dar judec\u0103 \u00een complet\u0103 cuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 de cauz\u0103, a\u0219a cum un judec\u0103tor judec\u0103 un caz (sau ar trebui s\u0103-l judece). Ca \u0219i cum via\u021ba persoanei pe care o judeci ar at\u00e2rna \u00een balan\u021b\u0103 &#8211; pentru c\u0103 uneori chiar este a\u0219a. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cel mai bun exemplu de <strong>judecat\u0103 pripit\u0103<\/strong>, extrem de proprie culturii noastre dar semnificativ de r\u0103sp\u00e2ndit\u0103 \u00een oricare alta, e <strong>judecata punctual\u0103<\/strong>. E exemplificat\u0103, \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, prin zicale cum ar fi &#8220;<em>unde dai mia \u0219i nu mai dai suta devii un tic\u0103los<\/em>&#8221; (recit din memorie, s-ar putea s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00een\u0219el la cuvintele specifice, corecta\u021bi-m\u0103). E clar c\u0103 zicala izvor\u0103\u0219te din am\u0103r\u0103ciunea celui care a dat \u0219i a ajutat care, pentru un singur refuz de a mai ajuta, se treze\u0219te aruncat la gunoi, desconsiderat. Cam to\u021bi cred c\u0103 am c\u0103zut \u00een aceast\u0103 gre\u0219eal\u0103. Despre mine \u0219tiu cu certitudine c-am f\u0103cut-o. Am\u0103r\u00e2\u021bi sau \u00eenfuria\u021bi de ni\u0219te cuvinte sau de o atitudine, de o jignire sau de un refuz, tindem s\u0103 judec\u0103m persoana prin prisma acelui eveniment, poate rar, poate unic. Uneori sentin\u021ba pe care o d\u0103m e renun\u021barea complet\u0103 la orice rela\u021bie cu aceast\u0103 persoan\u0103. <strong>Asta este, aproape sigur, o judecat\u0103 nedreapt\u0103<\/strong>. \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd pentru c-o facem \u00een c\u0103ldura momentului. Asta este cert. Mai pu\u021bin cert dar foarte probabil este faptul c\u0103 rela\u021bia noastr\u0103 cu acea persoan\u0103 e mai mult dec\u00e2t un eveniment \u00een timp. Mi se pare normal, <strong>dac\u0103 sim\u021bim nevoia s\u0103 d\u0103m o sentin\u021b\u0103, s\u0103 o facem m\u0103car pe baza \u00eentregii rela\u021bii cu acea persoan\u0103<\/strong>, nu doar punctual. Trebuie s\u0103 ne r\u0103sfoim memoria \u0219i s\u0103 ne amintim de evenimentele bune. \u0218tiu, e greu de rememorat cele bune c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti m\u00e2nios sau amar dar tocmai de aceea nu trebuie s\u0103 ne pripim \u0219i s\u0103 lu\u0103m o decizie &#8220;la rece&#8221;. Este virtual imposibil ca toate interac\u021biunile cu acea persoan\u0103, poate un prieten, poate o rud\u0103, poate un partener romantic, s\u0103 fi fost toate negative. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Abia c\u00e2nd am pus totul \u00een c\u00e2ntar, \u0219i bune, \u0219i rele, \u00eemp\u0103ca\u021bi, deta\u0219a\u021bi, abia atunci putem da sentin\u021ba. Dac\u0103-i musai, dac\u0103 sim\u021bim c\u0103 trebuie. De multe ori, dac\u0103 suntem one\u0219ti \u00een evaluarea noastr\u0103, descoperim c\u0103 binele dep\u0103\u0219e\u0219te r\u0103ul \u0219i ne vine u\u0219or s\u0103 am\u00e2n\u0103m sentin\u021ba. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Spun oricui st\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 asculte c\u0103 nu dau dou\u0103 parale pe una din metodele moderne de semnalare a virtu\u021bii: &#8220;Eu nu judec&#8220;. Mi se pare c\u0103-i ca \u0219i cum un pe\u0219te ar spune &#8220;Eu nu \u00eenot&#8221; sau o pas\u0103re &#8220;Eu nu zbor&#8220;. 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