{"id":208,"date":"2012-05-18T14:00:45","date_gmt":"2012-05-18T19:00:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/2link.ca\/blog\/?p=208"},"modified":"2012-05-18T14:00:45","modified_gmt":"2012-05-18T19:00:45","slug":"pleonasmul-expresiei-dragoste-cu-nabadai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/2012\/05\/18\/pleonasmul-expresiei-dragoste-cu-nabadai\/","title":{"rendered":"Pleonasmul expresiei \u201cdragoste cu n\u0103b\u0103d\u0103i\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>S\u0103 ne imagin\u0103m dragostea ca un continuum de serenitate, dulcea\u021b\u0103, g\u00e2ngureli frumoase este minunat&#8230; dar nu foarte realist. Dragostea adev\u0103rat\u0103 nu poate fi dec\u00e2t cu n\u0103b\u0103d\u0103i. <!--more-->Dragostea adev\u0103rat\u0103, nu acele sentimente c\u0103ldu\u021be de simpatie, ci genunchii care tremur\u0103, r\u0103suflarea care se taie, senza\u021bia de c\u0103dere \u00een gol, frica de a nu c\u0103dea \u00een gol combinat\u0103, curios, cu nep\u0103sarea c\u0103derii, este un lucru pre\u021bios. Este o emo\u021bie pre\u021bioas\u0103 \u0219i relativ rar\u0103.<br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/img\/Gustav_Klimt_Mother_Child_1905.jpg\" alt=\"G. Klimt - Mother and Child 1905\" \/><br \/>\nPentru c\u0103 este eteric\u0103, a\u0219a cum fac de obicei, caut o analogie mai teluric\u0103 pentru a m\u0103 explica: rar, pre\u021bios&#8230; hmmm, un tablou superb al pictorului preferat. Imi plac mul\u021bi \u0219i mul\u021bi m\u0103 fac s\u0103 vibrez dar Klimt e unul din acei arti\u0219ti speciali. Imagina\u021bi-v\u0103 c\u0103 de\u021bine\u021bi o pictura a pictorului favorit: Picasso, Modigliani, Matisse, Van Gogh. Nu, nu poate fi a unui \u201e<em>ilustru necunoscut<\/em>\u201d pentru c\u0103, \u00een mintea noastr\u0103, e o pictur\u0103 pe care <strong>oricine <\/strong>\u0219i <strong>fiecare<\/strong> \u0219i-o dore\u0219te, fie \u0219i numai ca un trofeu de afi\u0219at. Oare o asemenea posesie, unic\u0103, de ne\u00eenlocuit (a\u0219a simte fiecare c\u00e2nd iube\u0219te), care v\u0103 lumineaz\u0103 ziua \u0219i v\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103lze\u0219te \u00een miez de noapte, v-ar l\u0103sa neschimbat(\u0103)? N-a\u021bi tremura la g\u00e2ndul pierderii ei? Nu v-a\u021bi face griji c\u0103 cineva o va fura sau numai murd\u0103ri, \u0219tirbindu-i din valoare? Dac\u0103 nu v\u0103 face\u021bi asemenea griji, dac\u0103 sunte\u021bi absolut calmi, r\u0103m\u00e2ne\u021bi astfel: NU este iubire. Este doar o reproducere vulgar\u0103 pe care o pute\u021bi \u00eenlocui repede, u\u0219or \u0219i cu costuri minime.<br \/>\nExist\u0103 \u00eens\u0103 \u00een toate o m\u0103sur\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 \u0219i to\u021bi stim c\u0103 tot ce e prea mult stric\u0103. La fel cum lipsa n\u0103b\u0103d\u0103ilor trage semnale de alarm\u0103 referitoare la intensitatea iubirii, n\u0103b\u0103d\u0103ile artificiale \u0219i dese sunt distrug\u0103toare pentru o rela\u021bie. E normal s\u0103 fii \u00eengrijorat de pre\u021biosul tablou \u0219i s\u0103 iei ni\u0219te m\u0103suri de protec\u021bie. Dac\u0103 \u00eens\u0103 nu te mai duci la serviciu, s\u0103 te culci \u00een fa\u021ba lui \u0219i s\u0103 ataci pe oricine \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103-l priveasc\u0103, atunci ai ajuns probabil prea departe. Cel\u0103lalt, partenerul\/partenera, te poate ajuta: p\u0103str\u00e2ndu-\u0219i calmul, \u00ee\u021bi poate indica anormalitatea n\u0103b\u0103d\u0103ilor \u0219i poate \u00eencerca s\u0103 fie mai atent la spaimele tale, f\u0103r\u0103 \u00eens\u0103 a-\u0219i distruge via\u021ba personal\u0103 pentru asta.<br \/>\nConcluzii:<br \/>\n&#8211;\tNu exist\u0103 dragoste f\u0103r\u0103 n\u0103b\u0103d\u0103i (nu pentru MINE)<br \/>\n&#8211;\tDac\u0103 acestea lipsesc, atunci mai mult ca sigur nu este vorba de iubire<br \/>\n&#8211;\tTransparen\u021ba \u0219i empatia, grija de cel \u00een care au intrat n\u0103b\u0103d\u0103ile ar trebui s\u0103 ajute la potolirea acestora. Atitudinea indiferent\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de ele (chiar \u0219i atunci c\u00e2nd poate nu \u00een\u021belegem motivul lor sau ni se pare absurd) nu poate dec\u00e2t s\u0103 le \u00eente\u021beasc\u0103. Dac\u0103 asigur\u0103rile demne \u0219i recertificarea iubirii prin cuvinte calde nu ajut\u0103, atunci trebuie s\u0103 ne \u00eendep\u0103rt\u0103m, m\u0103car pt un timp de  \u201en\u0103b\u0103d\u0103ios\/n\u0103b\u0103d\u0103ioas\u0103\u201d \u2013 spunem ce avem de spus, cum ne afecteaz\u0103 \u0219i ne retragem, d\u00e2ndu-le (-ne?) timp de calmare.<br \/>\n[subscribe2] <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>S\u0103 ne imagin\u0103m dragostea ca un continuum de serenitate, dulcea\u021b\u0103, g\u00e2ngureli frumoase este minunat&#8230; dar nu foarte realist. Dragostea adev\u0103rat\u0103 nu poate fi dec\u00e2t cu n\u0103b\u0103d\u0103i.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[102,144,167,206],"class_list":["post-208","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-food-for-thought","tag-dragoste","tag-gustav-klimt","tag-iubire","tag-nabadai"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/208","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=208"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/208\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=208"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=208"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=208"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}