Ne place s\u0103 ne imagin\u0103m c\u0103 suntem spontani, tineri, inovatori, c\u0103 suntem capabili de mari iubiri \u0219i de gesturi \u00eendr\u0103zne\u021be pentru a le ob\u021bine. Cam at\u00eet \u2013 \u201ene place\u201d \u2013 pentru c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd suntem confrunta\u021bi cu asemenea op\u021biuni, tindem s\u0103 alegem cele care ne sunt familiare. Citeam intr-un articol c\u0103 omul tipic european \u00ee\u0219i petrece peste 90% din via\u021ba \u00eentr-o raz\u0103 de 6 mile (10 km). Asta cam spune c\u00e2t de \u00eendr\u0103zne\u021bi suntem.<\/p>\n
Ast\u0103zi m-am descoperit, pentru a 3-a oar\u0103 \u00een 2 zile, merg\u00e2nd spre fostul meu cubicul, de unde am fost mutat acum 1 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103. Am stat acolo numai 5 luni. Am realizat brusc care e cea mai mare for\u021b\u0103 din aceast\u0103 lume. Nu, oric\u00e2t\u0103 nevoie de romantism ave\u021bi, nu voi da un r\u0103spuns pe placul urechilor voastre: nu este iubirea, nu este via\u021ba, nu este dreptatea sau credin\u021ba. Este banala dar omniprezenta… OBI\u0218NUIN\u021a\u0102.<\/p>\n
\u00cencerca\u021bi s\u0103 v\u0103 aminti\u021bi c\u00e2te cazuri cunoa\u0219te\u021bi de oameni care au p\u0103r\u0103sit noi rela\u021bii, promi\u021b\u0103toare, iubiri pline de speran\u021b\u0103, pentru a se \u00eentoarce la persoane care i-au r\u0103nit, i-au umilit. Obi\u0219nuin\u021ba c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103! De c\u00e2te ori mergem la acela\u0219i club sau restaurant, \u0219i acolo comanda\u021bi aceea\u0219i m\u00e2ncare? Obi\u0219nuin\u021ba c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103! De c\u00e2te ori observa\u021bi pe cei din jur f\u0103c\u00e2nd acela\u0219i lucru, aleg\u00e2nd rela\u021bii destructive, \u00eenconjur\u00e2ndu-se cu acee\u0219i tip de prieteni. Obi\u0219nuin\u021ba c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103! Da, \u00eentr-un sens mai mare ar fi un semn c\u0103 lumea nu se schimb\u0103 dar, \u00een particular, ea nu se schimb\u0103 pentru c\u0103 noi nu o dorim. Daaaa, din gur\u0103 to\u021bi vrem s\u0103 ne schimb\u0103m via\u021ba, to\u021bi dorim ceva nou, dar \u00een fapt, c\u00e2nd ne confruntam cu clipa adev\u0103rului… obi\u0219nuin\u021ba c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103.<\/p>\n
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Ne place s\u0103 ne imagin\u0103m c\u0103 suntem spontani, tineri, inovatori, c\u0103 suntem capabili de mari iubiri \u0219i de gesturi \u00eendr\u0103zne\u021be pentru a le ob\u021bine. Cam at\u00eet \u2013 \u201ene place\u201d \u2013 pentru c\u0103 atunci<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[102,243,321],"class_list":["post-241","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-food-for-thought","tag-dragoste","tag-puterea-obisnuintei","tag-viata"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/241","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=241"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/241\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":243,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/241\/revisions\/243"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=241"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=241"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=241"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}