{"id":304,"date":"2013-06-12T04:32:02","date_gmt":"2013-06-12T04:32:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/?p=304"},"modified":"2013-06-13T03:40:41","modified_gmt":"2013-06-13T03:40:41","slug":"ce-m-a-invatat-reality-tv","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/2013\/06\/12\/ce-m-a-invatat-reality-tv\/","title":{"rendered":"Ce m-a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat \u201ereality TV\u201d?!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Judge_Judy_Sheindlin.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-313\" title=\"Judge_Judy_Sheindlin\" src=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Judge_Judy_Sheindlin-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"Judge Judy\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u00centrebarea asta s-a n\u0103scut \u00een mintea mea acum o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103. Noroc c-am l\u0103sat-o s\u0103 creasc\u0103 \u0219i nu m-am repezit ca un berbec ce sunt s\u0103 r\u0103spund, altfel a\u0219 fi spus numai bazaconii. A\u0219a \u00eens\u0103, dup\u0103 dospit, printre bazaconii se vor strecura \u2013 sper eu \u2013 \u0219i ni\u0219te idei mai de Doamne-ajut\u0103.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd, c\u0103, asemeni celor mul\u021bi, sunt lene\u0219 \u0219i slab. Am realizat c\u0103, chiar \u0219i dac\u0103 am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat ceva din cele dou\u0103 emisiuni pe care le urm\u0103resc \u2013 \u201e<strong>Judge Judy<\/strong>\u201d \u0219i \u201e<strong>Kitchen Nightmares<\/strong>\u201d &#8211; pentru lec\u021bie mi-ar fi fost suficiente 2-3 episoade. S\u0103 spunem c\u0103 restul de 100 de episoade urm\u0103rite au fost recapitularea, la fel cum acum dau examenul.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cens\u0103\u0219i \u00eentrebarea aceasta \u201e<em>Ce m-au \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat<\/em>?\u201d a ap\u0103rut ca o \u00eencercare (de om slab) de a ra\u021bionaliza timpul irosit cu at\u00e2ta nesim\u021bire. \u00cencerc s\u0103 dau un sens unei pl\u0103ceri vinovate \u2013 asta ca s\u0103 nu accept, nu din prima cel pu\u021bin, c\u00e2t de becisnic sunt.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00a0Judge Judy<\/h2>\n<p>Pentru cei ce nu \u0219tiu, este un serial \u00een care o fost\u0103 judec\u0103toare, Judy Sheindlin, arbitreaz\u0103 cazuri la TV. Cei care accept\u0103, renun\u021b\u0103 la procesul lor \u00een \u201e<em>small claims court\u201d<\/em> \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i spal\u0103 rufele murdare \u00een fa\u021ba judec\u0103toarei \u0219i a 20 de milioane de spectatori. De ce ar face cineva a\u0219a ceva? Este simplu \u2013 celebritatea, chiar \u0219i negativ\u0103, este apreciat\u0103 peste tot \u00een lume. Al doilea motiv \u2013 unul mai teluric \u2013 este c\u0103 televiziunea CBS pl\u0103te\u0219te daunele stabilite de judec\u0103toare (\u0219i nu cel ce pierde procesul), ba\u0219ca cazarea \u0219i deplasarea \u00een Los Angeles (unde emisiunea este filmat\u0103), zborul \u0219i altele.<\/p>\n<p>De la aceast\u0103 emisiune nu sunt prea multe de \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat. Este \u00eens\u0103 o emisiune fa\u021b\u0103 de care am sentimente amestecate \u2013 uneori m\u0103 \u00eendep\u0103rtez oripilat, sc\u00e2rbit de cazurile \u0219i persoanele implicate, dar revin, incapabil s\u0103 m\u0103 desprind de grotescul oamenilor \u0219i situa\u021biilor, dar mai ales pentru personalitatea judec\u0103toarei Judy. O cloac\u0103 uman\u0103 se perind\u0103 pe ecran:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>o mam\u0103 a c\u0103rui fiu de 14 ani a supravie\u021buit unui accident de ma\u0219in\u0103 care a dus la decesul fetei de 16 ani care conducea care o d\u0103 \u00een judecat\u0103 pe mama decedatei pentru 3000$ (costul ma\u0219inii);<\/li>\n<li>un tat\u0103 care cur\u0103\u021b\u0103 contul fiului de 17 ani care muncise la fast-food-uri pentru acei bani;<\/li>\n<li>mame care \u00ee\u0219i cheltuie asisten\u021ba social\u0103 \u00een cluburi de noapte, ignor\u00e2nd responsabilitatea celor 2-3 copii pe care \u00eei au;<\/li>\n<li>b\u0103rba\u021bi \u0219i femei care \u00ee\u0219i escrocheaz\u0103 partenerii lor \u0219i apoi r\u00e2njesc cu scuza etern\u0103 \u201eErau cadouri a\u0219a c\u0103 nu trebuie s\u0103-i dau \u00eenapoi\u201d<\/li>\n<li>fete \u0219i b\u0103ie\u021bi de 16 ani care \u00ee\u0219i aduc prietenul\/prietena s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 \u00een cas\u0103 cu p\u0103rin\u021bii cu binecuv\u00e2ntarea acestora<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u0219.a.m.d.<\/p>\n<p>Partea bun\u0103, partea care \u00eemi aduce alinare, este judec\u0103toarea Judy. \u00cemi aduce alinare de la acel \u00eengrozitor sentiment de singur\u0103tate, de alienare, pe care societatea modern\u0103 mi-l genereaz\u0103. Nu, nu este doar TV-ul, expresie extremist\u0103 a vie\u021bii noastre ci sunt \u2013 at\u00e2t de adesea \u2013 cei din jurul meu. Confruntat periodic cu o total\u0103 pierdere a valorilor, primind deseori, la \u00eentrebarea \u201e<strong><em>Is it just me<\/em><\/strong>?!\u201d r\u0103spunsul (direct sau indirect) \u201e<em><strong>Yes, it&#8217;s just you<\/strong><\/em>!\u201dsimt o ad\u00e2nc\u0103 bucurie c\u00e2nd judec\u0103toarea \u00eemi certific\u0103 faptul c\u0103 n-am \u00eennebunit. Cu un stil direct, brutal, grobian uneori, aminte\u0219te care sunt valorile \u0219i faptul ca ea le recertific\u0103 m\u0103 face&#8230; da!, m\u0103 face s\u0103 m\u0103 simt mai pu\u021bin singur.<\/p>\n<p>Este un monument de bun-sim\u021b. Un bun sim\u021b care, de\u0219i \u00eenc\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lnit cu doar 20 de ani \u00een urm\u0103 printre semenii no\u0219tri, acum a fost exilat de mii de teorii psihologice, de justific\u0103ri pe c\u00e2t de ira\u021bionale \u0219i g\u0103unoase, pe at\u00e2t de persuasive.<\/p>\n<p>Judec\u0103toarea Judy, \u00een fel \u0219i chip, repet\u0103 acela\u0219i mesaj de baz\u0103: \u201e<em>Cel pu\u021bin pentru mine mai exist\u0103 VALORI! \u00cen ciuda teoriilor voastre, m\u0103 \u00eend\u00e2rjesc s\u0103 definesc NORMALITATEA. Pute\u021bi s\u0103 face\u021bi ce vre\u021bi cu via\u021ba voastr\u0103 dar nu-mi vinde\u021bi gogo\u0219i pentru c\u0103 nu-mi ve\u021bi putea inversa valorile cu ra\u021bionalizarea voastr\u0103 pueril\u0103, cu minciunile voastre menite s\u0103 v\u0103 scoat\u0103 basma-curat\u0103<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Pare pu\u021bin dar, pentru mine, este mult. Nu m\u0103 deranjeaz\u0103 c\u0103 lumea este sub-mediocr\u0103, nu m\u0103 deranjeaz\u0103 abera\u021biile \u0219i devierile \u2013 au existat dintotdeauna \u0219i vor exista dar niciodat\u0103 nu le-am mai ridicat la nivelul de valoare ca acum. Incultura devine \u201eo atitudine relaxat\u0103\u201d; corup\u021bia devine \u201ebeneficiile pozi\u021biei\u201d, lipsa de responsabilitate devine \u201edreptul de a-\u021bi c\u0103uta fericirea\u201d. Totul este permis. \u0218i, c\u00e2nd totul este permis, ca s\u0103-l parafrazez pe Dostoievski, Dumnezeu nu exist\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>&lt;va urma&gt;<\/p>\n<p>[subscribe2]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00centrebarea asta s-a n\u0103scut \u00een mintea mea acum o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103. Noroc c-am l\u0103sat-o s\u0103 creasc\u0103 \u0219i nu m-am repezit ca un berbec ce sunt s\u0103 r\u0103spund, altfel a\u0219 fi spus numai bazaconii. A\u0219a \u00eens\u0103, dup\u0103 dospit, printre bazaconii se vor strecura \u2013 sper eu \u2013 \u0219i ni\u0219te idei mai de Doamne-ajut\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,5],"tags":[170,252],"class_list":["post-304","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-commentary","category-food-for-thought","tag-judge-judy","tag-reality-tv"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/304","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=304"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/304\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":314,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/304\/revisions\/314"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=304"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=304"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=304"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}