{"id":864,"date":"2017-06-26T22:45:33","date_gmt":"2017-06-27T02:45:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/?p=864"},"modified":"2017-06-26T22:47:32","modified_gmt":"2017-06-27T02:47:32","slug":"cearta-la-romani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/2017\/06\/26\/cearta-la-romani\/","title":{"rendered":"Cearta la rom\u00e2ni&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230; nu este ceart\u0103. Este anihilare. Este un r\u0103zboi nuclear, total, care nu las\u0103 c\u0103r\u0103mid\u0103 peste c\u0103r\u0103mid\u0103. Pentru c\u0103, pesemite, suntem emo\u021bionali. Unii ar spune \u201e<em>lipsi\u021bi de educa\u021bie<\/em>\u201d sau \u201e<em>nematuriza\u021bi<\/em>\u201d, &#8220;<em>b\u0103d\u0103rani<\/em>&#8221; sau &#8220;<em>psihopa\u021bi<\/em>&#8221; dar de ce i-am asculta pe ace\u0219tia?!<\/p>\n<p>R\u0103zboaiele, cred eu, sunt uneori necesare. Cele limitate, \u00een care urm\u0103re\u0219ti un scop. Dar, nu, la noi scopul se pierde foarte repede dup\u0103 \u00eenceperea r\u0103zboiului. Tot ce mai r\u0103m\u00e2ne este dorin\u021ba de anihilare. \u0218i c\u00e2nd se purcede la r\u0103zboiul nuclear, ce mai r\u0103m\u00e2ne de c\u00e2\u0219tigat?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/anger-problems-in-adults-with-asperger-syndrome.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-865\" src=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/anger-problems-in-adults-with-asperger-syndrome-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/anger-problems-in-adults-with-asperger-syndrome-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/anger-problems-in-adults-with-asperger-syndrome-768x511.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/anger-problems-in-adults-with-asperger-syndrome.jpg 849w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Dar, suntem oameni \u0219i este greu de purtat un r\u0103zboi de nimicire cu al\u021bi oameni. Trebuie musai s\u0103 uit\u0103m c\u0103 sunt oameni. Avem resursele \u0219i educa\u021bia necesar\u0103, scurs\u0103 prin ani de la comunism. <strong>Una din regulile propagandei este demonizarea adversarului<\/strong>. A\u0219a c\u0103-l pasti\u0219\u0103m \u00een cele mai negre culori. \u00cei uit\u0103m pluridimensionalitatea proprie umanit\u0103\u021bii, \u00eei \u0219tergem cu buretele orice calit\u0103\u021bi \u0219i-l transform\u0103m \u00een demonul a c\u0103rui distrugere va fi aplaudat\u0103. Va fi aplaudat\u0103 \u0219i noi vom fi Eroii Binelui \u2013 predictibil dup\u0103 alt\u0103 regul\u0103 a propagandei \u2013 <strong>regula simplific\u0103rii<\/strong> \u00een care to\u021bi se \u00eempart \u00een \u201e<em>prieteni \u0219i du\u0219mani<\/em>\u201d, \u201e<em>oameni de bine \u0219i golani<\/em>\u201d etc.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 cearta se poart\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103, cur\u00e2nd adversarii nu se vor mai privi \u00een ochi. Dac\u0103 ar face-o \u0219i-ar aminti c\u0103 cel din fa\u021ba lui e frate, sor\u0103, p\u0103rinte, partener de via\u021b\u0103 sau, ca minim, un alt om. Ne-am pierde inima de a strivi un alt om, a\u0219a c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 demon.<\/p>\n<p><em>Slav\u0103 Domnului<\/em>! <em>S\u0103 ne rug\u0103\u0103\u0103\u0103m<\/em>! C\u0103 ne-a dat internetul \u0219i nu mai trebuie s\u0103 ne privim adversarii \u00een ochi. \u00cei putem \u00eempro\u0219ca cu toate l\u0103turile f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 sim\u021bim vreun junghi de culpabilitate \u00eentre coaste. Ca \u0219i armatele lumii ne-am modernizat \u0219i lupt\u0103m prin intermediul dronelor din confortul fotoliului nostru. \u00a0Desigur, internetul \u0219i FB-ul acoper\u0103 numai un segment de conflict. Mai trebuie totu\u0219i s\u0103 d\u0103m ochi \u00een ochi cu demonii pe care-i \u00eenfr\u00e2ngem. Dar va trece \u0219i perioada asta nepl\u0103cut\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen timp ce alte culturi escaleaz\u0103, avans\u00e2nd treptat cearta la armele nucleare, la noi se trece la ele imediat dup\u0103 anclan\u0219area conflictului. Nimic nu este sf\u00e2nt. Nici o vorb\u0103 nu-i prea grea, nici o lovitur\u0103 nu-i prea murdar\u0103. Lovim ad\u00e2nc, cu orice ne st\u0103 la \u00eendem\u00e2n\u0103. Reamintesc \u2013 scopul nu e de a ob\u021bine ceva ci de a nimici demonul. Orice sensibilitate devine un punct critic \u00een care inamicul trebuie lovit. Un copil cu handicap, un divor\u021b dureros, o boal\u0103, un e\u0219ec la slujb\u0103 \u2013 toate devin dovezi ale nimicniciei adversarului.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/ad_anger_topics_lg.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-866\" src=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/ad_anger_topics_lg-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/ad_anger_topics_lg-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/ad_anger_topics_lg.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>\u0218i-l c\u0103lc\u0103m \u00een picioare. I-o spunem. Nu numai unui str\u0103in dar, poate cu prec\u0103dere, \u0219i unui om apropiat, unei rude sau unui prieten. F\u0103r\u0103 re\u021bineri, l\u0103s\u00e2nd m\u00e2nia s\u0103 trop\u0103ie peste cele mai frumoase \u0219i puternice leg\u0103turi din lume. \u00cen dragoste \u0219i-n r\u0103zboi totul e permis, nu? Noi alegem r\u0103zboiul. \u0218i folosim termeni absoluti\u0219ti, nedrep\u021bi, acuz\u0103ri care nu stau \u00een picioare \u00een fa\u021ba celei mai elementare scrutin\u0103ri.\u00a0 \u0218i rupem rela\u021bia \u0219i rupem prietenia \u0219i ne cre\u0103m premizele \u00eent\u00e2lnirilor penibile \u00een cercuri sociale comune sau chiar \u00een cas\u0103. Nu conteaz\u0103. A\u0219a e la r\u0103zbel.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i, dup\u0103 ce furia ni s-a potolit, ne sim\u021bim de rahat pe din\u0103untru. Ne sim\u021bim at\u00e2t de r\u0103u c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 mai retr\u0103im o dat\u0103, sau de zece ori, scena b\u0103t\u0103liei ca s\u0103 ne convingem c\u0103 nu puteam evita baia de s\u00e2nge. Trebuie s\u0103-i demoniz\u0103m \u0219i dup\u0103 ce s-a terminat. Pentru c\u0103 altfel, dac\u0103 \u00eenceteaz\u0103 s\u0103 fie demoni, ar trebui s\u0103 le cerem scuze, s\u0103 spunem c\u0103 ne pare r\u0103u&#8230; \u0219i asta ar fi un semn de sl\u0103biciunie, semn c\u0103 am gre\u0219it. \u0218i noi nu gre\u0219im. Niciodat\u0103. C\u00e2nd gre\u0219im, recite\u0219te propozi\u021bia anterioar\u0103.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_867\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-867\" style=\"width: 199px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/letpretendthisneverhappened11.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-867\" src=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/letpretendthisneverhappened11-199x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"199\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/letpretendthisneverhappened11-199x300.jpg 199w, http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/letpretendthisneverhappened11.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 199px) 100vw, 199px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-867\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">S\u0103 ne imagin\u0103m c\u0103 nimic nu s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Noroc c\u0103 orice sistem, inclusiv cultura noastr\u0103 \u201eemo\u021bional\u0103\u201d, trebuie s\u0103 n\u0103scoceasc\u0103 un mecanism de suportare, de supravie\u021buire. Acesta este \u201ea te face c\u0103 plou\u0103\u201d. O zi te acoperi de fecale apoi, peste 2 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, c\u00e2nd ambele p\u0103r\u021bi s-au calmat, se fac c\u0103 plou\u0103. N-ar putea face altfel \u2013 cel mai adesea nici una din p\u0103r\u021bi nu a ales drumul decen\u021bei, a r\u0103bd\u0103rii demne \u0219i, astfel, nici o parte nu are \u201em\u00e2inile curate\u201d. \u00a0\u0218i totul se reia, se spun glume, se trece peste jen\u0103, se cer scuze-nescuze (gen \u201enu trebuia DAR nici tu n-ar fi trebuit\u201d) \u0219i totul e sp\u0103lat.<\/p>\n<p>A\u0219a se crede. C\u0103 dac\u0103 te faci c\u0103 plou\u0103, ie\u0219i sp\u0103lat. Nu ie\u0219i! Ie\u0219i trist, cu amintiri, cu vorbe poate spuse la m\u00e2nie sau poate g\u00e2ndite, cu rela\u021bii sl\u0103bite \u0219i mai singur.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230; nu este ceart\u0103. Este anihilare. Este un r\u0103zboi nuclear, total, care nu las\u0103 c\u0103r\u0103mid\u0103 peste c\u0103r\u0103mid\u0103. Pentru c\u0103, pesemite, suntem emo\u021bionali. Unii ar spune \u201elipsi\u021bi de educa\u021bie\u201d sau \u201enematuriza\u021bi\u201d, &#8220;b\u0103d\u0103rani&#8221; sau &#8220;psihopa\u021bi&#8221; dar de ce i-am asculta pe ace\u0219tia?! R\u0103zboaiele, cred eu, sunt uneori necesare. Cele limitate, \u00een care urm\u0103re\u0219ti un scop. Dar, nu,<span class=\"excerpt-ellipsis\">&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/2017\/06\/26\/cearta-la-romani\/\" itemprop=\"url\">Continue Reading<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,3,1],"tags":[66,182,242],"class_list":["post-864","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blues","category-commentary","category-uncategorized","tag-cearta-atomica","tag-lipsa-barierelor","tag-propaganda"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/864","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=864"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/864\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":870,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/864\/revisions\/870"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=864"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=864"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=864"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}