{"id":1136,"date":"2019-12-07T23:35:45","date_gmt":"2019-12-07T23:35:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/?p=1136"},"modified":"2020-10-18T22:20:56","modified_gmt":"2020-10-18T22:20:56","slug":"dialoguri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/2019\/12\/07\/dialoguri\/","title":{"rendered":"Dialoguri"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Cum func\u021bioneaz\u0103 dialogul \u00eentre doi oameni normali c\u00e2nd unul e deranjat de ceva anume (I= Interlocutor):<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I1: Nu m-am sim\u021bit confortabil cu ce spuneai
I2: Da? M\u0103 scuzi, n-am \u0219tiut. Pe viitor, am s\u0103 \u00eencerc s\u0103-l ocolesc.
I1: Mul\u021bumesc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Banal. Plictisitor. Unul cere, cel\u0103lalt d\u0103. Nimeni nu se simte atacat. Nu este pic de sare \u0219i piper. O versiune germanic\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iat\u0103 \u00eens\u0103 versiunea latin\u0103 \u00een care m\u0103car unul, dac\u0103 nu chiar am\u00e2ndoi, au stim\u0103 de sine redus\u0103 – e spumos, animat, antrenant \u0219i (cel mai bun lucru) conflictul e asigurat: <\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

I1: Nu m-am sim\u021bit confortabil cu ce spuneai.
I2: De ce? C\u0103 eu spuneam doar c\u0103 […] \u0219i n-ar trebui s-o iei \u00een personal.
I1: Nu am cum s\u0103 n-o iau personal. M\u0103 deranjeaz\u0103 pentru c\u0103 […] \u0219i pentru c\u0103 […]
I2: N-ai \u00een\u021beles tu bine.
I1: Eu cred c-am \u00een\u021beles perfect, altfel n-a\u0219 fi spus nimic
I2: Nu, nu, n-ai \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 eu am vrut s\u0103 spun c\u0103 […]
I1: Ba am \u00een\u021beles. \u0218i dac\u0103 prima oar\u0103 m-a iritat, acum, c\u0103 repe\u021bi, m\u0103 enerveaz\u0103.
I2: PLM. Nu repet, \u00ee\u021bi explicam ca s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi.
I1: \u00cemi insul\u021bi inteligen\u021ba \u2013 am \u00een\u021beles perfect \u0219i te-am rugat s\u0103 nu mai vorbe\u0219ti de asta.
I2: Ar trebui s\u0103 \u0219tii c\u0103 a\u0219a sunt eu. Nu-s ipocrit(\u0103).
I1: Fii cum vrei dar m\u0103 deranjeaz\u0103. E o gre\u0219eal\u0103…
I2: Aha, acum \u00eemi spui \u0219i c\u0103 fac gre\u0219eli, deci. Ce s\u0103 spun?! De parc\u0103 tu e\u0219ti perfect. Nu mai \u021bii minte cum ai f\u0103cut […] \u0219i […]
I1: Ce leg\u0103tur\u0103 au cu ce vorbim? Nu era vorba de mine. Nu spuneam dec\u00e2t c\u0103 m\u0103 deranjeaz\u0103 \u0219i…
I2: STF. Eu, eu \u00ee\u021bi spun c\u00e2te lucruri m\u0103 deranjeaz\u0103 la tine? C\u00e2te t\u00e2mpenii \u00eendur eu de la tine?
I1: Bine. Hai s\u0103-\u021bi explic [explica\u021bie lung\u0103, cu detalii]
I2: \u00cen\u021beleg! Ai dreptate! Sunt o persoan\u0103 rea, tic\u0103loas\u0103, proast\u0103, meschin\u0103… \u00ab- SARCASM
I1: C\u00e2nd am spus eu a\u0219a ceva?! Eu spuneam doar c\u0103…
I2: … iar tu e\u0219ti sensibil. M\u0103 scuzi c\u0103 e\u0219ti at\u00e2t de sensibil! Mea culpa c\u0103 te-a f\u0103cut m\u0103-ta sensibil \u00ab- MULT MAI MULT SARCASM<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dou\u0103 ore (sau 8 email-uri) mai t\u00e2rziu, cu jigniri, \u00eemp\u0103nate cu stupidele “tu, niciodat\u0103” \u0219i “tu \u00eentotdeauna”<\/em>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I2: \u0218i din acest motiv nu mai vreau s\u0103 mai vorbesc cu tine niciodat\u0103. M\u0103 faci \u00een toate felurile. E\u0219ti intolerant.
I1: Nu te-am f\u0103cut \u00een nici un fel. Doar am spus doar c\u0103… Intolerant?
I2: \u0218tii ce? Las\u0103-m\u0103 \u00een pace. Nu vreau s\u0103 mai aud de tine.
I1: Te rog nu te juca cu asemenea lucruri. Realizez c\u0103 te-ai enervat.
I2: E\u0219ti un pis\u0103log. Nimeni nu m-a pis\u0103logit at\u00e2t. \u0218i pentru ce? Pentru c-am spus adev\u0103rul? Nu mai vreau s\u0103 \u0219tiu de tine. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Cum func\u021bioneaz\u0103 dialogul \u00eentre doi oameni normali c\u00e2nd unul e deranjat de ceva anume (I= Interlocutor): I1: Nu m-am sim\u021bit confortabil cu ce spuneaiI2: Da? M\u0103 scuzi, n-am \u0219tiut. Pe viitor, am s\u0103 \u00eencerc s\u0103-l ocolesc. I1: Mul\u021bumesc. Banal. Plictisitor. Unul cere, cel\u0103lalt d\u0103. Nimeni nu se simte atacat. Nu este pic de sare \u0219i…<\/span><\/p>\n

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