Cam toate rela\u021biile se pr\u0103bu\u0219esc \u00een ceart\u0103, \u00een repro\u0219uri. Atmosfera e \u00eenc\u0103rcat\u0103, vorbele plesnesc peste fa\u021b\u0103. E ca o alunecare de noroi. Dar timpul trece, potole\u0219te (sau ar trebui s\u0103 potoleasc\u0103 emo\u021biile), memoria noastr\u0103 selectiv\u0103 spal\u0103 lucrurile \u0219i, dac\u0103 avem un gr\u0103unte de creier \u0219i control asupra orgoliului personal, ajungem s\u0103 accept\u0103m propria contribu\u021bie la dezastrul emo\u021bional, s\u0103 vedem cauzele independente de voin\u021ba celor doi care au dus la destr\u0103mare. Ajun\u0219i \u00een acest punct, o dat\u0103 speran\u021bele ucise \u0219i amintirile cur\u0103\u021bate de negativ, putem revizita cu nostalgie toate momentele luminoase ale rela\u021biei… Ajun\u0219i \u00een acest punct, putem, \u0219i mi se pare necesar, s\u0103 ne luam r\u0103mas bun de la fostul partener\/fosta partener\u0103.<\/p>\n
Ce sens are? Doi fo\u0219ti str\u0103ini care s-au cunoscut \u0219i s-au iubit o vreme, dup\u0103 care au redevenit str\u0103ini. Nu \u0219tiu exact ce sens are. Poate c\u0103 pe mine m\u0103 ajut\u0103 s\u0103 fac pace cu tot ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat, cur\u0103\u021b\u0103 complet acele memorii dragi, poate c\u0103 u\u0219ureaz\u0103 pe cel\u0103lalt, reafirm\u00e2nd faptul c\u0103 nu e vina nim\u0103nui, c\u0103 lucruri rele se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u0219i uneori (adeseori?) izvor\u0103sc din cele mai bune inten\u021bii. F\u0103r\u0103 aceste cuvinte de alinare, f\u0103r\u0103 acest epilog pe m\u0103sura iubirii pe care cei doi au \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bit-o, \u00eemi vine greu s\u0103 recuperez p\u0103r\u021bile bune, \u00eemi vine greu s\u0103 fac pace \u0219i s\u0103 merg mai departe liber. Amintirile pl\u0103cute se vor poticni (la mine o fac) \u00eentotdeauna \u00een frustrarea t\u0103cerii celuilalt.<\/p>\n
C\u00e2nd o rela\u021bie moare, dac\u0103 a fost ceva semnificativ, merit\u0103 o ceremonie de \u00eengropare. Am \u00eencercat s\u0103 ofer aceast\u0103 ceremonie \u0219i, mai rar, acest gest mi-a fost \u00eentors. \u00cen celelalte cazuri, mortul a r\u0103mas pe deasupra \u0219i continu\u0103 s\u0103 put\u0103 mai mult dec\u00e2t ar fi cazul, p\u00e2n\u0103 soarele unei noi rela\u021bii \u00eei albe\u0219te oasele.[subscribe2]<\/p>\n
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Cam toate rela\u021biile se pr\u0103bu\u0219esc \u00een ceart\u0103, \u00een repro\u0219uri. Atmosfera e \u00eenc\u0103rcat\u0103, vorbele plesnesc peste fa\u021b\u0103. E ca o alunecare de noroi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,5],"tags":[124,167,248],"class_list":["post-237","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blues","category-food-for-thought","tag-final","tag-iubire","tag-ramas-bun"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/237","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=237"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/237\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":239,"href":"https:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/237\/revisions\/239"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=237"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=237"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=237"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}