{"id":461,"date":"2013-12-11T17:59:37","date_gmt":"2013-12-11T17:59:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/?p=461"},"modified":"2013-12-11T18:00:20","modified_gmt":"2013-12-11T18:00:20","slug":"manifest-pentru-ipocrizie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/2013\/12\/11\/manifest-pentru-ipocrizie\/","title":{"rendered":"Manifest pentru ipocrizie"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cemi amintesc de o \u201cdoamn\u0103\u201d care insista acum vreo doi ani, pe un site de dating, s\u0103 avem un chat. Am \u00eendemnat-o, pentru a-mi economisi timpul, s\u0103 o lu\u0103m \u00eencet, s\u0103 se prezinte \u00een email pentru c\u0103 diferen\u021ba de fus orar dintre Ottawa \u0219i Bucure\u0219ti face dificil\u0103 o comunicare direct\u0103. Ea \u00eemi l\u0103sa mesaje offline, insist\u00e2nd pentru chat. \u00centr-o zi am uitat s\u0103 m\u0103 \u201cascund\u201d pe chat-ul site-ului \u0219i, ca un uliu \u201cdoamna\u201d s-a n\u0103pustit asupra mea. M-a informat c\u0103 abia a ie\u0219it din du\u0219.<a href=\"http:\/\/www.theepochtimes.com\/n2\/science\/media-profanity-associated-with-teen-aggression-62899.html\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-463\" alt=\"Spala-ti gura murdara\" src=\"http:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/potty_mouth-300x209.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"209\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/potty_mouth-300x209.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.2link.ca\/newblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/potty_mouth.jpg 350w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><!--more--> Cred c\u0103 \u00eencerca s\u0103 provoace insinu\u0103ri erotice dar, de\u0219i flirtul m\u0103 amuz\u0103, pe cel mai intim \u00eel p\u0103strez pentru fazele mai avansate. Am vorbit politicos \u0219i am \u00eencercat s\u0103 m\u0103 explic c\u00e2t este de greu s\u0103 chatuim \u0219i cum, \u00een opinia mea, prin acest mediu de comunicare se spun multe \u0219i se comunic\u0103 pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDoamna\u201d a ie\u0219it la atac. Mi-a spus, f\u0103r\u0103 ocoli\u0219uri, c\u0103-mi trage un v\u00e2nt \u00een fa\u021b\u0103. Evident, \u201cv\u00e2nt\u201d este eufemismul pe care \u00eel folosesc pentru cuv\u00e2ntul ei neao\u0219. Acum, nu sunt deloc un puritan dar cred c\u0103 asemenea exprim\u0103ri, ca \u0219i flirtul intim, necesit\u0103 timp, \u00eencredere, cunoa\u0219tere a interlocutorului \u0219i, chiar \u0219i atunci, referin\u021bele la func\u021biile corporale trebuie evitate.<\/p>\n<p>Reac\u021bia mea a fost una de perplexitate. Acum \u0219tiu c-ar fi trebuit s\u0103 \u00eenchid chat-ul \u0219i s-o blochez. Imediat. Natura \u00eens\u0103 m-a \u00eenzestrat cu o naivitate copil\u0103reasc\u0103: cred c\u0103 oamenii fac gafe \u0219i merit\u0103 o a doua sau chiar a treia \u0219ans\u0103. M-am apucat s\u0103-i explic c\u0103 nu e manier\u0103 corect\u0103 de a aborda oameni necunoscu\u021bi. Nu \u0219i-a cerut scuze \u2013 singura atitudine acceptabil\u0103 \u2013 ci, cu m\u00e2ndrie \u0219i sfruntare, mi-a replicat c\u0103 \u201c<em>Eu nu sunt ipocrit\u0103<\/em>\u201d. Ce leg\u0103tur\u0103 are buna cre\u0219tere, cei \u0219apte ani de acas\u0103, cu ipocrizia?! Dup\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 dou\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103ri de a o aduce pe calea cea bun\u0103 am renun\u021bat, mi-am luat un gr\u0103bit <em>\u201cr\u0103mas bun<\/em>\u201d \u0219i am ie\u0219it de pe site.<\/p>\n<p>Ulterior, o alt\u0103 duduie, \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103toare de profesie, m-a abordat cu \u201c<em>Ce profil de rahat ai<\/em>!\u201d. De\u0219i \u00eempins departe de lipsa unui salut \u00a0\u0219i, mai ales, de exprimarea ei, am \u00eencercat s\u0103 aflu ce anume o deranjeaz\u0103. A continuat o conversa\u021bie agresiv\u0103. De data aceasta r\u0103bdarea mea era mai scurt\u0103 a\u0219a \u00eenc\u00e2t i-am spus c\u0103 deplor soarta copiilor pe care \u00eei educ\u0103 \u0219i am blocat-o.<\/p>\n<p>De ce povestesc toate acestea? Pentru c\u0103, \u00een cele \u0219ase luni de c\u00e2nd am revenit \u00een Rom\u00e2nia am observat c\u0103, o mare majoritate a rom\u00e2nilor, s-a lep\u0103dat de p\u0103catul \u201c<strong>ipocriziei<\/strong>\u201d. Nu se mai ascund, nu sunt f\u0103\u021barnici \u0219i, spre deosebire de genera\u021biile trecute, nu mai \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 mint\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103-\u0219i sus\u021bin\u0103 diplomele universitare, pozi\u021biile publice cu cuvinte elevate. \u00centr-un act de teribilism infantil, pentru a-\u0219i dovedi destuparea mental\u0103, vorbirea li s-a \u00eembog\u0103\u021bit cu \u201c<em>bube, mucegaiuri \u0219i noroi<\/em>\u201d. Pe strad\u0103, la TV, pe Facebook, oriunde m\u0103 \u00eentorc, am senza\u021bia c\u0103 sunt sub asediu vorbirii suburbane. \u00a0Buze \u00eenconjurate de barb\u0103 dar \u0219i din cele rujate \u00eempr\u0103\u0219tie cu d\u0103rnicie, st\u00e2nga \u0219i dreapta, organe genitale \u0219i \u00eenjur\u0103turi cu toptanul. Este chic s\u0103 fii \u201c<em>neao\u0219<\/em>\u201d \u0219i, ca \u00een multe altele, mul\u021bi rom\u00e2ni aleg s\u0103 nu o fac\u0103 m\u0103surat.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Un ziarist de la B1, <a title=\"Catalin Prisacariu \" href=\"http:\/\/prisacariu.ro\/\" target=\"_blank\">C\u0103t\u0103lin Pris\u0103cariu<\/a>, r\u0103spunde la un comentariu absolut decent de pe Facebook cu \u201cM\u0103n\u00e2nci c*cat \u0219i sunt politicos pentru c\u0103 spun doar at\u00e2t\u201d.<\/li>\n<li>O actri\u021b\u0103 \u0219i t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103 mam\u0103, <a title=\"Alina Nedelea\" href=\"http:\/\/alinanedelea.blogspot.ro\/\" target=\"_blank\">Alina Nedelea<\/a>, \u0219i <a title=\"Alina Nedelea\" href=\"http:\/\/atelier.liternet.ro\/articol\/13928\/Alina-Nedelea\/Dead-Can-Dance.html\" target=\"_blank\">postarea ei <\/a>\u00eemi sunt aduse aten\u021biei de o alt\u0103 (fost\u0103) prieten\u0103-de-FB. Alina, o femeie frumoas\u0103 \u0219i probabil inteligent\u0103, ca o mam\u0103 bun\u0103 ce este, ne informeaz\u0103 \u00een aceast\u0103 postare, c-o educ\u0103 pe copila ei, o feti\u021b\u0103 de 5 ani, s\u0103 spun\u0103 poezii:<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">&#8220;<em>Frumoasa mea cu ochii verzi, mai proast\u0103 ca t\u00e2mpirea.<\/em><br \/>\n<em> Eu pentru tine am c\u0103zut,\u00a0de-mi\u00a0blestem fericirea,<\/em><br \/>\n<em> Dar dac\u0103 tu nu vrei s\u0103 vii cu mine printre a\u015ftri,<\/em><br \/>\n<em> M\u0103 c*c \u00een ochii t\u0103i zbanghii \u015fi \u00een din\u0163ii t\u0103i alba\u015ftri<\/em>!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Dincolo de amuzamentul cauzat de versuri, un fior \u00eemi str\u0103bate \u0219ira spin\u0103rii c\u00e2nd realizez c\u0103 aceast\u0103 poezie vine din gura unei feti\u021bie de 5 ani \u0219i c\u0103 mama ei le-a pus acolo. Nu m\u0103 pot ab\u021bine \u0219i o parafrazez pe ex-prietena-de-FB care sus\u021binuse c\u0103 nu ai cum s\u0103 nu iube\u0219ti pe Alina Nedelea: \u201cDesigur. Cum s\u0103 nu iube\u0219ti o mam\u0103 care \u00ee\u0219i educ\u0103 feti\u021ba cu asemenea poezii\u201d. Acest comentariu o \u00eenfurie pe mam\u0103 care m\u0103 informeaz\u0103 prompt c\u0103 ea \u0219i so\u021bul sunt atei (de parc\u0103 a fi ateu are ceva cu a fi bine crescut) \u0219i c\u0103 ea, nefiind ipocrit\u0103 (\u00eenc\u0103 una), \u00ee\u0219i educ\u0103 fata s\u0103 utilizeze cuvinte cum este c*r, p-masculin, p-feminin. C\u00e2t despre a fi iubit\u0103, o doare \u00een c*r. \u00cei doresc vindecare rapid\u0103 \u00a0de\u0219i m\u0103 tem c\u0103 boala posteriorului s-a r\u0103sp\u00e2ndit \u0219i la creier, afect\u00e2nd responsabilitatea pe care un adult ar trebui s-o aib\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de cuv\u00e2ntul rostit dar mai ales, fa\u021b\u0103 de cel scris.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>La mas\u0103, \u00eentr-un restaurant, un comesean chefliu, revars\u0103 complimente asupra prietenei mele pe care, admirativ, o nume\u0219te \u201cp-feminin de\u0219teapt\u0103\u201d. \u201cSper c\u0103 nu te-ai sup\u0103rat, c\u0103 e un compliment\u201d. Apoi, pentru a ne asigura de bunele lui inten\u021bii \u0219i a ne permite compara\u021bia, nume\u0219te c\u00e2teva femei pe care el le consider\u0103 \u201cp-feminine proaste\u201d. Dup\u0103 o scurt\u0103 pauz\u0103 de sorbire a berii \u00ee\u0219i \u00eentoarce aten\u021bia asupra mea \u0219i men\u021bioneaz\u0103 c\u0103 i-au pl\u0103cut comentariile mele de pe Facebook. V\u0103z\u00e2ndu-le, se pare, s-a \u00eentrebat pe sine \u201cCine este P**lic\u0103 asta?\u201d. Evident, din nou, folosea cuv\u00e2ntul P**lic\u0103 \u00een sensul lui cel mai bun, admirativ.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>A\u0219 putea continua cu exemplele, poate, \u00eenc\u0103 treizeci de pagini, \u0219i sunt convins c\u0103 la fel ar putea face oricine nu s-a blazat cu limbajul de hazna pe care, sincer, nu mi-l amintesc at\u00e2t de r\u0103sp\u00e2ndit. Morala acestei post\u0103ri e simpl\u0103. Dac\u0103 a evita, pe c\u00e2t posibil, rostirea \u0219i scrierea acestor cuvinte este ipocrizie, v\u0103 rog, nu v\u0103 sfii\u021bi: FI\u021aI IPOCRI\u021aI! Eu, v\u0103 asigur, nu v\u0103 voi purta pic\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru ceilal\u021bi, cei care s-au lep\u0103dat de ipocrizie \u0219i pe care \u00eempr\u0103\u0219tierea organelor genitale \u00een aerul din jur le confer\u0103 sentimentul unor genii ie\u0219ite din cutia celor mici, le spun c\u0103 Via\u021ba are un vagon de s\u0103pun cu care-i va sp\u0103la \u0219i pe gur\u0103 si la c*r p\u00e2n\u0103 le vor s\u0103ri fulgii.<\/p>\n<p>[subscribe2]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cemi amintesc de o \u201cdoamn\u0103\u201d care insista acum vreo doi ani, pe un site de dating, s\u0103 avem un chat. Am \u00eendemnat-o, pentru a-mi economisi timpul, s\u0103 o lu\u0103m \u00eencet, s\u0103 se prezinte \u00een email pentru c\u0103 diferen\u021ba de fus orar dintre Ottawa \u0219i Bucure\u0219ti face dificil\u0103 o comunicare direct\u0103. 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